Lesson Learned

If I ever feel unfortunate in life that I'm not as attractive as some of the girls, I should be grateful that my life isn't haunted by psycho guys who were willing to do anything, and I mean anything, just to have me.

If I ever feel sad that I'm still single at the age of 25 when most of my friends are either getting married, getting engaged, or getting pregnant, I should feel blessed that I still have the opportunities to broaden up my horizon and get to know lots of people in life.

You just don't know the struggle other people has to go through. They might be 'lucky' in certain areas (pretty, settle down very young, etc), but they might be 'unlucky' in other areas as well. Just like you, you have your own 'lucky' and 'unlucky' points too.

So girls. Never ever compare yourselves to others. Because nothing good will come out of it. All it does is just killing your own self esteems. Believe me, I did that to myself for years only to look back and regret all the opportunities that I've missed for second guessing myself, for thinking that I won't be good enough.

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4 comments:

ZirCon gurL said...

saaangat stuju!
sometimes I do feel so especially my two close frens have already engaged, but I am still single..
tp bila pk2 what we have, we should be grateful enuf with wut we hv kan..

mahfudz mn said...

Heh, you're only 25. Don't worry too much! Orang yang getting married pun pening kepala jugak... :p

Farhan Iqbal said...

i can understand you. Time will come and waiting is a bliss!

sms_topaz said...

like!

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